Aaron Conrad posted a great compilation of quotes from Walker Lamond’s book “Rules for My Unborn Son.” As a father of two daughters, this list didn’t really speak to me, though it was full of great insight. So, I set out to build my own list of rules for my daughters. As I searched and gathered, I found some quotes were inspiring and poignant, but most bordered on “mansplaining.” I went back to the source and found that Walker Lamond wrote “Rules for my Newborn Daughter,” of which, I present 40 of my favorites:
My Rules for My Daughters
- If you can follow a recipe, you can build a table.
- Dance with your dad. And not just on your wedding day.
- On a first date, order the steak.
- Never trust a profile pic. Not even your own.
- There’s nothing cooler than a girl who can change a tire.
- You can enter a beauty pageant… as soon as you earn your engineering degree.
- If a boy says something that isn’t funny, you don’t have to laugh.
- Never let him win.
- Introduce yourself.
- It isn’t where you came from, it’s where you’re going that counts.
- Put your camera away and enjoy the moment.
- Beauty is mostly attitude. The rest is good lighting.
- I will never tell you whom to love. But I reserve the right to show him or her pictures of you from middle school.
- Dads can brush hair, too.
- The best cheerleaders are not on the sidelines, they’re on the field.
- Don’t age gracefully. Age defiantly.
- They’ll remember the thank-you note longer than you’ll remember the gift.
- If you are the smartest girl in your group of friends, maybe it’s time for some new friends.
- When entrusted with a secret, keep it.
- There’s not a man on the planet who hasn’t deserved to have a drink thrown in his face.
- If you like someone, ask them out.
- Master a second language. Preferably math.
- If you cooked, they clean, and vice versa.
- If your date doesn’t meet you at the door, don’t even bother opening it.
- Don’t apologize for your opinion before you’ve given it.
- Keep promises. Especially the ones to yourself.
- If you think you deserve a raise, ask for one.
- I’d rather see you finish a hard task than master an easy one.
- Be skeptical. But always leave room for a little magic.
- No matter where you are, I will always come get you.
- Don’t try to sweet talk the teacher.
- If you can still read a magazine, you’re not really exercising.
- Let your work speak for itself.
- Your reputation is in the hands of those who know you the least.
- You are only as nice as you are to strangers.
- The moment you lose your temper, you’ve lost.
- Learn to take a compliment.
- The internet never forgets: practice safe selfies.
- A little self-deprecation goes a long way.
- Practice is about building up your tolerance to failure.
For my eldest daughter, I add this rule: “Don’t just watch the band. Join it.” who, at 4 years old, aspires to be a Rockstar Princess!
Adorable!